Journal of Sacred Work

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The priest at my little faith community experienced a serious stroke earlier this year, followed by another intracranial bleed, additional complications, surgeries and a grim prognosis.

Miracles do happen; prayers are answered.  

Watching Peter’s miraculous progress month by month has been incredibly inspiring to witness.  

On Christmas Eve, our beloved pastor gave the homily. Since the stroke his thoughts and expressions are marvelously transparent and go unfiltered. In the past, Peter said he might have been concerned about how others viewed him, or with wanting to impress people with his knowledge.

All this has vanished now and what remains is a pure unconditional love and his wonderful humor.

What touched me most, is how Fr. Peter sees everyone through a sacred lens. He described how we are all spirits before our birth in human form and that each person is a real treasure to truly cherish. The sincerity and beauty of his message lingers still.

How often do we forget this truth?

Our relationships with the people who enter our lives offer us gifts beyond measure that help us grow and learn something in the process. 

A childhood memory of mine is walking to church on Sunday mornings with my mom and brother Tom. Afterwards we would stop by my grandmother’s house for our weekly visit. There we were warmly greeted with hugs and kisses by my elderly grandmother, Kate, Uncle John & Aunt Mary. I recall fondly now, (although I did not fully appreciate this at the time) how all three would come to the doorway to wave as we took our leave, standing there watching until we were out of sight. It was a small but sweet gesture and a tender expression of love.  

When all is said and done what do we remember? Perhaps, the ways we opened our hearts and shared our love as best and as imperfectly as we were able? And to ask for forgiveness for the ways we fell short.

I thought I would share this poem by Sr. Claire who I have the privilege to know as a friend and as someone I love and adore…

Christmas is a time for remembering
That love is eternal and friendship forever.
A time to forget the hurt and the pain
And taste all the joys of love once again.
To know the meaning of the Christ child’s birth
 Is to know that He came to bring love to the earth.
 “That all may be one, O Father,” He prayed.
We must forgive and forget the mistakes that were made.
Let’s just share and relish this time while it lasts
And give praise and thanks as each moment flies past,
For we know that one day the anguish and pain,
The fear and the sorrow will be turned into gain.
And then we will know the fullness of life
 Its mystery will vanish and so will all strife
For at the moment we will discover HIM in each other!

Poem by Sister Claire Olivier, CSJ
Jubilee Journal © 2012

Liz - child-Collbrook New HampshireWishing you happiness in the grand celebration of all that you are,

with thanksgiving for all the love & friendship we have shared.

Happy New Year to all!

In peace,
Liz Sorensen Wessel

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8 responses to “Days 362-363 All that We Are”

  1. Maureen McDermott Avatar
    Maureen McDermott

    Beauty lingers in the words, images, stories and video links you have shared with us during the year, Liz. How encouraging as we farewell another year to be invited to look deeper to see the hidden treasure of each person. May that truth lead us to greater peace and love throughout 2019. May you be blessed, Liz. Thank you.

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  2. erie chapman Avatar
    erie chapman

    Dearest Liz. THIS is a day when I wish everyone in the world would be reading this Journal entry of yours. You bring not only the loveliness of your sweet memory (and your early ability to notice the “small” things but the gift of this incredibly tender snapshot of little you – your waiving arm raised above a gathering of daisies, your soft smile, your always kind eyes.
    Here is a time – the end of another year – when you bring us also the blessing of words from your friend, Sister Claire. Including this couplet:
    “A time to forget the hurt and the pain
    And taste all the joys of love once again.”
    Thank you, Sister Claire, and thank you, Liz – for growing from the little girl with the daisies to a woman who has brought healing to literally thousands of patients and their families – and to each person who reads your essay today.

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  3. Jolyon Avatar
    Jolyon

    Somewhere over the rainbow…are we looking back or forward? The rainbow reaches for the sky but is grounded. That is what comes to mind when I read about the childhood memory of your relatives. Were you looking back at them or were they looking forward to your future? Waiving you ahead to happiness decades down the roads not yet taken.
    With the warm memories of growing up “you will never walk alone”.
    And next time you see Fr. Peter, please give him a great big hug from all of us. Truly, a friend of yours is a friend to us.
    P.S. Nice picture…were you waving forward to your self for this day?

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Dear Maureen,
    Thank you for another year of journeying with us on the JSW. Your wisdom and thoughtful blessings are surely one of the reasons this Journal continues into the new year. I am so grateful for your ongoing encouragement. Wishing you every happiness in the days ahead!

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Dear Erie,
    I am grateful for such a beautiful and incredibly moving affirmation. It has been a wonderful journey partnering with you on the JSW. Thank you for the opportunity to learn, grow and expand my heart, hopefully for the benefit of others and myself in the process.
    God bless and wishing you every happiness in the new year, Erie!

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  6. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Jolyon, thank you for such a beautiful reflection as the wisdom, warmth and kindness of your heart shines through your words.
    What a wonderful inquiry you offer that enriches my experience of what I have written. Yes, now I can see that it is a both and! Thank you for this gift, Jolyon!

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  7. Lynn Romanus Avatar
    Lynn Romanus

    You are always a blessing, Liz. Your words always inspire and uplift. Happy New Year!

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  8. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    Thank you, Lynn, sorry I missed your comment, until this morning. You are a gift and I am grateful for the way you journey with us on the JSW. Your engagement surely inspires us to keep going…wishing you every good blessing in this year of new beginnings!

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