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Mount Rainier WA 2-21-2020 by  LizArriving in Seattle, Hassan, an Uber driver responded to my call. My destination, the Palisades retreat Center for my first session of a Mission formation program. We had a 30-minute drive ahead of us and curious about his accent, I asked Hassan where he was from. He responded in an open manner that he was from Sudan and he began to share a little of his story.

Hassan's home village is near a river where his grandmother farms the land. Hassan expressed worry that his grandmother is working too hard. “If she would only listen to me and sell her crops oversees, she would make a lot more money. Instead, she sells her vegetables to the local community for very little money.”

“Wow, it sounds like she cares more about her neighbors than making money. She is concerned about the people in her community and the common good of others. Perhaps, what matters most to her is seeing that her friends do not go hungry. What an extraordinary woman she is!” I observed. “Yes, she knows everyone in the village and the people all know and care about each other there.”

“Hassan, it seems like you are carrying a weight on your shoulders over this dilemma and you worry about your grandmother's well-being." "Yes, I am. I plan to visit soon and I will time my visit with the harvest, so I can help." I learned that both of Hassan’s parents had died but I did not wish to pry unless he chose to talk about it. He mentioned that his grandmother came to visit him for a few months but she was anxious to return because she missed home. “I have very few friends here. People communicate via social media. It is lonely.” "Yes, it can be. " I agreed. “Technology is a double edge sword. I enjoy glimpses of  my friends and relatives lives who live far away but it has its limitations. Yet, it is incredible that you can google any topic and receive "how to" information at your fingertips. instantaneously; now that I love!”

 Upon arrival at the retreat center, Hassan reached out to shake my hand, as a sense of mutual gratitude passed between us. In our short time together, we learned a little about each other’s lives and discovered a commonality in our values; our love of family and the meaningful essence of human connection that bonds us as family, one to another.

Liz Sorensen Wessel
Photo of Mount Rainier, taken from the plane

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6 responses to “Days 53-54 One Family”

  1. Maureen McDermott Avatar
    Maureen McDermott

    When we reach out in love and compassion we are reminded once again how small our world really is and how we share the same hopes and desires for our family and local communities. Thank you Liz for sharing how your random act of kindness through the engagment of Hassan united our world in hope.

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  2. Terry Chapman Avatar
    Terry Chapman

    How kind to encourage him to speak his feelings about his family! Listening is a forgotten art form that we should all be better at offering one another. Talking, even without further actions, is a “medicine” for the soul! Try listening to a family member or friend for 2 without interrupting; not easy but practice helps.
    My most helpful counselors over the years have all been superb listeners who enabled me to hear myself problem solving and reflecting on my experiences, bad and good. In retrospect, most experiences were positive in that I learned something about myself and the other persons. Oh, that we would all care enough to really listen: to people, other creatures, and all the varied sounds of Nature!

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  3. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    There you are – living love in every facet of your life – and spotting beauty from the plane to send along to us so that we, too, may experience the majesty of the great Mount Ranier.
    I wonder if anything at your retreat matched the power of your exchange with your driver – and how you signaled to him that a complete stranger saw him as so much more than – the Uber Driver?
    I wonder if you shared your experience at the retreat so that the participants might see that living love is every day and every way – not just at during the retreat experience.

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  4. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    It was a moment in time when we were both open. I gained as much from the experience as I believe Hassan did. Another day or time I might not have been open to talking or guarded…there was a safe space for the sacred to enter in…

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  5. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I agree Terry, the art of listening to really understand another person without giving advice is a rare gift.
    So true, when we are struggling through a concern it helps to talk it through out loud, hearing ourselves, we might think gosh that is not so rationale…and it really helps when someone can hold that space without giving advice. 🙂 thanks for sharing your insights, Terry!

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  6. ~liz Wessel Avatar

    I definitely saw a very intelligent, thoughtful young man. Of my experiences this past week, this was the one that bubbled up to the surface.
    I did not think to share this with anyone at the session. It was only when I reflected further on my experiences that this one in particular came to light as meaningful.
    Thank you, dear Erie for such a lovely affirmation. I trip up but I keep trying to learn, grow and be with the parts of me that needs compassion and understanding the most…so that we can hold a space for one another…

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