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Rosalynn-carter-obit   The story still haunts me. Rosalyn Carter was siting on the front porch with Jimmy the day after he left the President's office.

   "I need to replace some of those bricks below the front steps," he told her. 

   "When Jimmy said that," the former first lady told a reporter, "all I could think was that the day before we had been dealing with  the Iran Hostage Crisis. Our life horizon had suddenly shrunk from leading the free world to worrying about bricks."

   Astride any large stage in our lives, our attention is focused on what seem to be big issues. When our stage shrinks, we keep doing the same thing. A crack in the front steps sucks our attention as if it were something earthshaking.  

   Sometimes, the stage changes size twice in the same day. The nurse manager of a giant ER who has spent all night multiple victims of a mass shooting may chuckle to herself when she comes home to see her teenager fussing about a cut finger. 

   It is difficult and important to sustain perspective. Indeed, that skill has a direct impact on our ability to practice once of life's most essential skills: gratitude. 

-Erie Chapman

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3 responses to “What is in the Circle?”

  1. Erie Chapman Foundation Avatar

    This essay was originally posted prematurely by a preprogramed app. Sorry.

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  2. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    I appreciate yor essay Erie and the value of perspective. It really is a helpful self check and regulation. I am reminded about hw I can sometimes (what I call ) awfulizing about a situation… then I will take a pause and just take a look around me as I come into the present moment and notice… perhaps the sun is shining with little shadows dancing on the wall…a breeze coming through the window… and I recognize things are okay.
    Or when I am a little hungry or have an ache of pain and I think of all the suffering in this world suddenly these little pangs seem so insignificant and as you say… I feel so grateful and count my blessings while offering a prayer for our brothers and sisters…and support the UN food program

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  3. Liz Wessel Avatar
    Liz Wessel

    I appreciate the wisdom shared, with gratitude 🙂

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